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HOW TO HOST A SMALL AND INTIMATE WEDDING

The Big Fat Indian Wedding concept has been nullified! All the credit goes to the unfortunate pandemic that hit the globe last year. Many couples have postponed their wedding due to covid. However, some couples are ready to take the plunge amid covid. Since there is a restriction on the number of guests, couples are hosting small and intimate weddings. No matter how unconventional it may sound, but small weddings have their charm! Moreover, decorators are transforming the gardens and homes into something majestic. Therefore, if you are also looking forward to hosting an intimate wedding, here we have listed some tips that would help you:

  • GUEST LIST

Since the pandemic has not ended yet, you must cut short your guest list and keep it relatively minimal. Only sent invitations to immediate relatives on both sides. Please make certain precautions like hand sanitizers are available at every table and the wedding venue entrance. You can do a bit more and make customized face masks for everyone to encourage everyone to wear masks at the wedding.

  • MAKE UP YOUR MIND

There are so many options out there on the internet about the colours, outfits, and decor. Don’t get confused, and make a properly organized list of each section. This planned drafting would allow you to simplify options and help with further budgeting.

  • PICK THE RIGHT DECORATOR

It is not just enough to talk to the decorator on the phone and book them for the wedding! Please reach out to decorators personally and enquire about their previous wedding executions. Explain briefly about your vision and how you want things in a particular manner. Discuss the space at home and what material they are planning to use. After discussing everything, please talk about the budget and then hire them!

  • START CHOOSING OUTFITS VIRTUALLY

Designers are up on their toes to offer you your dream bridal lehenga on your day! If you don’t need to step out from your home, the meeting can be done virtually. Discuss the designs, appropriate colors, and discounts on your bridal outfit briefly.

  • BUDGET PLANNING

To begin with, you need to acknowledge what kind of wedding you want. A small tight low budget wedding or lavish wedding with a limited number of people. Once you identify this, it would be easier for you to break down the budget. Plan the budget on a micro level, for instance- how much would you spend on the venue, alcohol, etc. Identify these factors; then, it would be easy to recognize what can be eliminated.

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Theme to choose for an Indian Wedding

Your wedding is the most important day of your life and you want to do it in style! Go for a theme wedding that you’ve always wanted and made your special day look like a dream. So what would be your chosen Indian wedding theme? A fairy tale wedding, a royal wedding, a forest wedding or a green wedding…the options are endless. Take a look at some of the most popular Indian wedding theme ideas and start planning your wedding right away:

The need for Indian Wedding Themes

A theme based wedding is a story line around your set of big days – be it in costume, wedding decor, wedding venue, catering and themes for all the function within your Indian wedding ceremony, This makes it easy for someone to associate your wedding with the wedding theme, as well as for you (or the wedding planner) to structure it. Here are a few common Indian wedding themes.

  1. Fairy tale Wedding:

Boy meets girl, they look into each other’s eyes and it was love at first sight. Does that sound similar to your own love story? Go for a fairy tale themed wedding for a perfect “happily ever after” effect to complete your love tale. Here are a few theme ideas:

  • The Wedding Venue –

Choose an outdoor location or convert your indoor wedding venue into a fairy tale dream idea. This means use chandeliers, flowers and starry lights for your stage decorations to get a fantasy world look. Consult your Wedding planner to have swans in an artificial lake for that extra edge.

  • Wedding Decor –

Put boards and placards with signs like “welcome to a land far far away”, “Cinderella’s bachelorette” or “Elsa’s Mehndi”. Give fun wigs of long hair on pool party to your guests to look like Rapunzel. Soft colors like white, pink, peach or pastels for your decor.

  • Bridal Outfit inspirations –

Like your wedding decor, use soft colors like white, pink, peach or pastels for your wedding outfits and decorations.

You can go for a frilly toe length gown accessorized with a tiara on your reception or cocktail party.

The groom can opt for an all-white suit. You could also opt for an Indian princely look with a white Sherwani and jewelry.

  • Include it in your couple songs –

Start your first engagement couple songs and dance performance by enacting the Cinderella’s shoe-fitting scene. Choose romantic love songs for your couple dance performances on Sangeet.

Make your wedding a once in a lifetime experience and let the guests be mesmerized with the themes talked above.

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Why Music is life of all the weddings?

Music is one of the things at your wedding, which forms the part of a persona and helps one to set the mood of the wedding party. Choosing music for the wedding can be one of the most enjoyable tasks of the wedding planning. It can also be a good option when one wants to take a break from the busy and hectic preparations for the wedding. Some couples have an impression that music is not necessary for the wedding or they don’t find the task very important and leave it completely to the DJ. However, this should not be the case, as music helps to add an essence of entertainment and fun to the enjoyable and auspicious occasion like your wedding. Without music, your wedding can turn out to be quite a dull affair with a feeling of something missing from it. Moreover, it is always special to dedicate songs to your loved ones.

Since music played in the wedding can be heard by everyone and is crucial for setting up the right mood of the wedding party, it should be selected with utmost caution. For selecting the right kind of music for your wedding there are a few tips to remember.

It is essential to remember that music should not cater to only a single age group. This is because in every wedding there are people who belong to different age groups starting from children, teenagers, youth, to the elders. Thus, if music is of the choice of only one age group then the others will tend to get bored and sometimes even frustrated.

Second most important thing to remember while choosing your wedding playlist is that it should not contain any songs that may sound awkward or annoying when played aloud in an audience. There are many songs in your playlist that you may personally like but they may not be very decent to be played when you are being accompanied by your mother and grandmother.

Another thing that should be considered while selecting the songs for your wedding is that they should not all be dance numbers as a wedding should not have a complete dance party feel to it.

Next point to remember is selecting the right DJ or band. Make sure whatever you hire for the music requirements of your wedding, be it a band or a DJ, you explain your music specifications as well as any restrictions very clear to them. A band could be a good option when you want to give an old school feel to your wedding.

Also, make sure that the playlist does not have too much variety in tempo and feel of music as constant switch of music from traditional, Bollywood, classical or romantic can many a times become frustrating for the audience.

Apart from the above tips, never forget to add your personal touch to your wedding playlist as music is the best way to add the essence of your personality to the wedding and convey your feelings for your partner and loved ones through music.

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Why Music is the essence of Indian Weddings?

Music is probably the best form of emotional expression. No wonder then it plays a vital role in a marriage. In a culturally hybrid society like ours, music aptly takes on the onus of expressing the joys and sorrows of the occasion and lives up to the responsibility.

Every nook and culture of India marries daughters and sons to some strains of accompanied music. This music is traditionally bequeathed and rings off a particular instrument. For example, most of the music played in South India is played on the nadswaram. The shehnai is another instrument favoured by many communities like the Gujaratis, Maharashtrians, and even the Bengalis. While the dholki or dholak are popular choices among the cultures of Punjab and Rajasthan.

Music in weddings celebrates not only the joy of the union but also the sanctity of it. Hence, there is a mix of traditional, classical, folk and spiritual songs that go with weddings. For the Punjabi and Christian weddings music adds a completely different dimension to the festivities. The Sangeet ceremony of the Punjabis is a fun function where lots of ribbing and teasing happens between both sides. The dholki (an elongated tabla) is a favorite instrument and the beat of the tabla sees many a relative matching time with it, with great gusto. The sangeet ceremony includes songs ranging from the verses from the love ballads of Waris Shah, to the travails of the bahu in her sasural, to slightly bawdy lyrics with naughty puns and innuendoes. Special dholwalis are invited for the occasion to add that special touch. These days though, it is the live bands and disc jockeys who have taken up the mantle.

Accompaniment of music is an important trademark displaying the relationship between music and Indian weddings. Traditional songs and dances abound in Islamic weddings too especially during the mehendi function. In the pithi dastoor ceremony among the Rajputs, the dholans, (women singers with dholak) sing auspicious pre-wedding songs while the ceremony is in progress and then continue to be present throughout the wedding. This trend is seen among Tamilians too. The ritual of pallikai thellichal (where married women from both sides sprinkle water on pots filled with nine varieties of grain) is accompanied with traditional songs and music.

Celebration or worship, both tug at the emotional threads of man. Music acts as that balm or vehicle one may say which is the right channel on an occasion as sublime yet as festive as only a wedding can be

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How music adds to the melody of the wedding

Wedding is an important event in any family and society, marking the onset of a new journey of not just two individuals, but two families as well!

To make a wedding more entertaining and indulging, music has always played an essential role. The music played during the different parts of the wedding ceremony had always a great importance in assuring a nice, joyful and elegant background for the wedding. Flowers and music usually play a major part in the background decoration. So, looking at a fresh, beautiful floral scheme, listening to touching, and soft music during the wedding ceremony helps one to appreciate the unique moments of happiness and joy, to feel the solemnity of the day of wedding.

Wedding music may be from different styles and melodies. People use a lot of musical effects and individual songs to express the importance of the particular ceremony part, processional music being an important one. The groom’s procession is no less than a King’s victory march after winning a battle and it is the band music which makes the procession so grand and lively that people who aren’t even related to the groom join the procession just for the sake of fun!

These customs and traditions may be different in every culture, in every religion, but all of them are usually assisted by well prepared and performed music accompaniment. Unescorted ceremony parts are rarely to find.

So, as a wedding is a spectacular occasion for the family, for the friends, business partners or even political participants of the society. The wedding music sets the general mood and tone of the ceremony or reception, expressing a lot of feelings or even different information about the social and financial, religious or political background of the contracted marriage.

They usually choose the songs of the wedding together with the family members or hire a talented music band for this occasion. Famous hits or well-known classical or other music pieces are popular for modern weddings. After all, it’s the music which adds melody to a wedding!